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Sunday
Aug192012

Rox(i)nspiration: Katie 

I met Katie last year at Pocono Ironman 70.3, she was my roommate through Team in Training. We have since stayed in touch and she is certainly a kindred spirit and inspiration.

 

Katie Hoesch

25 years old

katehastorun.com

 

Outside of trying to make my way post-college in the professional world, I dedicate my time to fitness and health. Through endurance training and racing, I fundraise for causes that mean something to me, my family or my community. I started training journey almost 6 years ago, never imagining it would lead to where I am today.  While reflecting on my 5-years’ worth of racing and fundraising; it sparked my newest venture Katehastorun.com.  I invite the world into my heart and it’s all centered around the life lessons that endurance training and racing has taught me. My blog is a way for me to express my gratitude to the universe for giving me such an incredible gift.

Name one person, place or thing that inspires you the most?

My mom, a hug from her always makes a dim situation brighter.  Not everyone has the capability to show love so easily and I strive to emulate that every day.  She has always been a beautiful example of perseverance through life’s difficulties and putting her children first through everything.  She is a symbol of power and strength, she is a protector and teacher and all while figuring out how to live a life of balance with wisdom and humor. She is always befriending people wherever she goes.  She faces challenges head-on and comes out of very difficult situations with grace and beauty.  This example has helped me realize the strength within myself.

 

One thing most people don't know about you?

I have an oddly specific memory.  I used to try to hone my photographic memory abilities while waitressing in college.  It was like a game. I would look at a person’s face when they are ordering, not writing a thing down. I would get to the computer to put in a table’s order and I would remember the person’s face and immediately know their detailed order. It was fun. Once a gentleman at a table I was waiting on challenged me.  He said there was no way I could remember an “annoyingly picky” family’s 13-person order perfectly (to which he added in a whisper, ‘My mother-in-law down there will drive you to drink’) without writing it down.  Needless to say, I won!  He ended up coughing up an extra $30 at the end; which I proudly accepted.  

 

How do you stay healthy/in shape?

I am currently focused on triathlons and marathons; swimming, biking, running!  I have tried a plethora of sports from childhood through college. Tennis, kickboxing, lacrosse, volleyball, dance, yoga, strength training; basically I do anything that will challenge a different part of my body and mind.

 I am a firm believer in balance and cross-training.  Running by itself has never been good on my body. It has caused a lot of pain and problems when overdone.  I am thankful to have been a swimmer since I was a child; thanks to my mom. Swimming is the “cure all” for many of the physical stresses caused by other “hard on the body” sports.  I have always compared it to a perfect mixture of running and yoga.  It gives you the aerobic and strengthening workout that running provides. Swimming is peaceful; the breathing and lung workout have similar effects to an intensely meditative yoga class.  I love the way I feel after a swim. I feel very me.

 I got a physical recently and after my doctor listened to my lungs, she laughed and asked “Which endurance sports do you do?”  I told her swimming, biking and running. My doctor said that she and her classmates used to laugh when they didn’t know an answer to a question about what would cure certain ailments or physical issues, they would always joke and say “swimming!” I believe it to be true.

 

Is there a moment or event that changed the path of who are today?

The reason I became an endurance athlete started with the passing of my grandfather in 2004 from ALS Lou Gehrig’s Disease; and my uncle in 2006 that died of complications from cancer treatments.  They were both very big parts of my family and my life. It was my first experience with personal loss.  I decided that instead of being afraid and feeling sorry, I wanted to do something to fight against what took their lives.  I signed up for my first marathon in 2006 in my grandfather’s memory, and ended up raising $3,300 for the ALS Association in his name.  A few years later, I received an email from the ALS society detailing a major breakthrough they had in identifying certain types of the hereditary form of ALS.  I remember crying at that moment because I realized that my efforts made a difference, no matter how small. This first marathon and feeling of accomplishment opened me up to the beautiful community of endurance racing.  It started the ball rolling for my race achievements and is a big part of who I am today.  I don’t think I would have had the courage to attempt a marathon without having my grandfather’s strength and memory by my side, giving me purpose.

What is the best advice you could give someone?

Don’t avoid something because you are afraid of it.  It is the things that we are most afraid of that we should face head-on, because overcoming those fears produces the greatest sense of personal pride and happiness. 

Don’t ever give up.  It sounds cliché, but we aren’t always meant to achieve a goal the first time we try.  There’s a lesson hidden in our failures that we need to learn before we succeed. Where is the fun in always getting what we want? Who is more exciting to watch in a championship match; the team that always wins or the underdog? Victory is sweetest when its value is most appreciated.

 

What is your favorite food?

Blueberries and Avocado; not necessarily together, but I can’t say that I’ve given it a fair try.

 

What is one word that describes you?

Passionate.  My parents have always told me that even since I was a baby, whatever I was feeling…I was feeling it. It is still true 25 years later.

 

What do you want your contribution to this world to be?

Through my writing and continuous personal challenges racing and fundraising; I want to help people realize their own potential.  I want to show them how to find the courage within to attempt something they never thought was possible and experience what it feels like to amaze yourself. Forgetting about everyone else and enjoying that feeling of being truly proud of you.

 I feel this is one step towards figuring out the most important secret in life: making your own happiness. Endurance sports, fundraising and writing is an outlet that has opened my eyes to possibilities. It has allowed me to realize I can use these tools to strengthen my own “shelter of happiness”.  I want to help people realize this for themselves and know that it comes from the inside out. 

Sunday
Aug052012

The case against YOLO: Discipline

You may be familiar with the term that rapper Drake has made very popular YOLO meaning “You Only Live Once.” The philosophy behind the popular use of YOLO goes beyond stating the obvious, but delves into day to day decision making. Should I save my money now or blow it on a new pair of shoes? Answer: YOLO. Should I stick to my diet or eat this large slice of pizza? Answer: YOLO. Should I hook up with this guy that is totally wrong for me or wait for someone who is worthwhile? Answer: YOLO. You get my drift. I am all too familiar with the YOLO lifestyle because that’s how I used to live; I even based a whole relationship on the principle. After years of living my life making decisions based on a whim I was left depressed, fat and broke. The down side of YOLO is not so glamorous.  

I can see this flawed philosophy in so many aspects of our culture. When did we stop fighting for our lives? When did mediocrity become so popular? I say this with the best of sentiments as I was someone who was a slave to YOLO. I broke free from that mentality when I understood how great my purpose in life was; and how my desire for an amazing life outweighed the pleasure of any instant gratification. I received strength and peace from God; I got clarity about my purpose through Christ. This life isn’t easy and I couldn’t do it on my own.

Discipline

The aspect of YOLO I do like is the reinforcement of our limited time on earth. If we want anything great we have to have the disciple to work hard, sacrifice and the ability to focus on goals. It’s a little comical that the same affluent successful people who are talking about YOLO are the same ones that had to sacrifice and discipline themselves to excel at their craft.

There is no magic pill to conquering a goal. When I was 65 pounds overweight and trying to lose, there were moments when I just wanted to go to KFC and order a bucket of chicken and say YOLO with my middle finger in the air. Yes, all that food would have made me feel happy at the moment, but then I would feel depressed about my lack of discipline. Discipline your life and get serious about your purpose. Discipline and self-control is a gift from God. I seriously believe it is something we forget to realize when we run around thinking the devil and people are sabotaging our lives when it is us the whole time.

There are still areas of my life I am still learning to disciple, but I am working to be better every day. What area of your life is hard to discipline? What is your take on the term YOLO? How have you conquered a goal by being disciplined? Share your thoughts and comments. 

Sunday
Jul222012

How I found peace...

Stress has a funny way of showing you who you really are and it can be ugly. My under pressure ugly usually went something like this: snapping off at the first person who interacted with me (they should’ve known I was under stress), venting (gossiping) with my friends to feel better, blaming God for all my problems (I believe in him WHY isn’t he helping me) and having a full blown cry fest pity party for myself. I realized in January I was peace deprived. My life was hectic with commuting, moving and traveling and I needed to handle the stress before it handled me. I only knew of one source of peace and that was God. I needed to make a serious commitment to spend time with God through more prayer, fasting and reading the Bible. Day by day I just got quite before God. It was very interesting because once I got quite God started showing me areas in my life to fix and shut out the noise and stress.  My circumstances haven’t changed I just changed my mind.

Turn off the TV, Gossip blogs and negative people. This single act made a huge difference. I stopped deliberately watching TV back in February and when I moved into my new place I just didn’t bring my TV with me.  I used to LOVE reality shows. I remember one night tweeting something so horrible about a reality star and I asked myself…who am I? Who have I become? I am sitting up here judging these people and might do the same thing given the circumstances.  I also realized that we secretly get a high when we see people in horrible situation on TV, it makes us feel good about our lives. So I quit cold turkey. Same with gossip blogs, its hard and from time to time I click but I general I try to avoid. The evil side of me that enjoys these things is something I don’t want to grow so I shut off the source.

Learn to serve in the workplace. Under paid and overworked classifies many people in this country including me. Not to mention 70% of the time I was mad at my boss, like to the point where I would go in the bathroom and just have a scream and cry midway through the day. I retaliated by having a bad attitude and being rude.  I would talk about my boss and it was terrible. I asked God, “What are you trying to teach me?” Then I was reading the Bible one night and God just put in my heart that I need to learn how to serve. From that day forward I changed. I completed every required task on time and no back talk. I started to smile more and I learned to serve. I am so much happier and my work environment is now at peace. This isn’t my dream job, but when my dreams do become lucrative the karma of my actions now will shine through to my future employees.

Spend time with genuine, good, loving people. Since being on my personal peace mission God has just put so many AMAZING people in my life old and new. There is nothing like having an amazing conversation with someone that truly loves and cares about you. The past few months I have been on a high from all the wonderful people that have been put in my path, it has really taken my joy and peace to the next level.

Random acts of kindness.  When was the last time you prepared lunches for your coworkers? Or sent a card to a friend you haven’t spoken to in a while? Given an old woman at the grocery store a ride home?  There are so many random acts of kindness you can do each day. It feels so great to help someone in need and if your try to do something small every day your peace will be off the meter!

Stop gossiping and talking about people. This was very difficult and still is hard. It was so natural to me to go to a friend and vent or complain about someone.  It seemed innocent enough. However, as faithful as God is on the blessings he is that way on the corrections. I just started to feel horrible every time I complained or talked about someone in a negative light. So I stopped. I still struggle at times but I have come a long way. When I get the urge to talk about someone I just talk out loud to God.

Talk to God like a friend. FYI this is called prayer. We often think prayer has to be some grandiose act, like you have to change your voice, wave your arms and start using words to impress God. That is not the case. Just talk to God like you’re having a normal conversation. Ever since I started doing this I can’t shut up. I talk to God all the way to work, after work, while I am cooking dinner and as I am falling asleep.  I am so relieved and I just cast all my cares on him. I don’t worry or stress; and if I feel myself starting to stress I just open my mouth and start talking.

We all have our own journey to joy and peace and I hope that my journey inspires you.  What are some ways you have found peace? Are there things about your life you have changed? What do you do daily to welcome peace into your life?

Wednesday
Jun202012

Woman: From Good to Great

There is an unspoken war fare going on with the self-esteem of women today. From every angle I am bombarded with images of decorative nails, intriguing hairstyles and snap shots of our daily “looks”. Now don’t get me wrong there is nothing wrong with taking pride in our appearance, the problem is when that alone defines us; when we become nothing more than a long weave or a creative nail. When our worth is wrapped up in our appearance and the better we look the more highly we think of ourselves.

What is the motivation? Maybe it is for men. So they will look at us more? So that we can captivate someone long enough to sustain a relationship? Or we can gain value from the abundance of attention that we receive? That was me. For many years I was wrapped up in my appearance that I failed to define my worth. I was so focused on looking amazing that my attitude sucked. I didn’t understand why my relationships were failing and why things were not working out. When I gained weight it was the end of the world because my appearance which I used to validate myself was crumbling. I no longer had a foundation to stand on. Embarking on the journey to becoming healthy was only the beginning of my lesson in self-worth. Even when I lost weight I still looked for validation from people especially men. I could never have admitted this at the time but it was true. I had a false sense of confidence that was eroding every day. I battled with deep depression and hurt.

I wish I could say that it was my triathlons or healthy eating that saved me, but that was only a bi-product of the ultimate solution. It wasn’t until I built a real relationship with God and accepted Christ into my life that I began to know my worth. It was quite fascinating because God began to open up little pockets of worth all over. I started training for races and became athletic which built up my physical worth. I started writing and began sharing on this website which built my creative worth. I began to cook and take an interest in healthy eating which built up my hospitable worth. More recently I took up gardening or as I like to call it farming and built up my collective worth. There are so many more facets of me. Now my worth doesn’t lie in how great my appearance is but how wonderful I am through God because he has revealed MY special gifts.

Now I am a woman who can grow my dinner, cook it into something delicious and eloquently share my testimony on how it all happened. I say this all to say: Don’t put your worth in things that fade. All around us society tells us how to look and act but God calls us to be different and unique.  Embrace that!

Please share your thoughts and comments. 

Wednesday
Jun202012

Rox(i)nspiration: Growth 

(The first pre-mature tomato from my garden! #farmerRoxi)

"But forget all that- it is nothing compared to what I am going to do. For I am about to do something NEW. See, I have already begun! Do you not see it? I will make a pathway through the wildress. I will create rivers in the dry wasteland."

Isaiah 43: 18-19